08 February, 2014

2-3-21 working with others: Option orientation

Shit happens all the time, and whatever you do it will happen no matter what precautions you are taking
So how to deal with it:

-          Don't focus on the problem. That will just consume most of your energy and attention
-          Focus on the solution and how to treat this
-          Know that the problem that has happed already is outside your locus of control, but the solution is the thing you can control all the time

-          Don't go to tell anyone about it without you figuring out options to solve it and picking out the best approach to deal with it