When something goes in the wrong way/
doesn't work as expected …we tend to blame the reason on someone else, and this
someone blames it on another person …. Everyone and everything is wrong but us
:/
Actually it is almost one of two
things:
1- You are part of
this if not the essential cause of what happened and you just don't want to
admit that
2- It is because of
inevitable circumstances and the guy you blame is doing his best but that was
just out of his control
So before you take action you are
gonna regret, collect as much info about this situation as possible, know about
the context of this …. Then try to fix it first then blame who is ti be blamed
and take action against him (don't reverse this as you may need that person you
are going to blame –to fix this situation because things may go wrong when
blaming him and he refuses to assist you fixing this)
And if you don't know detailed context
about the problem, assume it is due to some circumstances. Unless this kind of
behavior/action becomes sort of a pattern with a specific someone, then you are
free to take action against him
Also, be fair and blame some of this
on you, at least for not foreseeing this coming
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