You can't control most of the things
around you; most of people, environment, and multifarious things that happen
around and for us
Actually you can only control only
ourselves –to a certain limit- and things you own and some people you can
influence
A very good strategy to not get
insane in this world trying to control everything and worrying about that is to
separate what you can control from things you can't control or influence
And I am not saying ignore them … not
at all … you prepare of them, foresee them,
plan to react to them, respond and hit back … but that don't try to
control them .. you simply can't … so stop worrying about it
DON'T worry about things you CAN'T do
anything about ….. life will be much easier and peaceful
So, what if bad things happened and
you just can't do anything about it? What is the best strategy to deal with it?
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Actually there are two solutions: you can keep kicking
yourself in the butt and damaging all your nerves as a punishment to you for ….
for … for …. Actually I don't know for what … just you this in vain, with no
purpose at all
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And the second solution is to ACCEPT it. Ask yourself:
I am here … where to go from here, where to start from?
I know it is a hard choice, but I am
sure you will choose wisely :)
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