A psychological fact:
The less we know about something, the
more competent we think we are
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We tend to be very confident and overvalue our
thoughts, beliefs, ideas, plan …etc. over the others'
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Being confident and a believer is very good actually,
it is the main drive of the most inspiring persons in history who made huge
changes in the world, especially when you have a belief of a very-unlikely big
dream
But the excessive confidence is very
bad, it will make you just keep making dumb decisions and not listening to
any one's advice until you find yourself in a deep shit hole that you can't out
of
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The difference between the two is a very simple test:
are you asking yourself all the time if you are really that good or you just
imaging that?
Asking that question and seeking for an answer by testing your ideas,
counseling people, listing to criticism, educate one's self …etc. is a very
good indicator of being better than you think you are
The more you learn, the more you know how clueless and ignorant you have
been –are. And the more you practice, the more consciously-confidence you
become and the more you become aware of what you are doing and how to
self-correct yourself
So always seek advice, counseling and knowledge. Test your ideas against
others' and book's to see if you really that good … and if not, by doing that
you are already improving yourself and become better every day
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